The other day, when Chris called to tell me that our buyers had backed out, one of the first things he said was "I hope you haven't updated your facebook status!". We laughed about it b/c for once I hadn't updated the status but I HAD just posted to our blog. Ah well, such is life!
I'm interested to see where the Lord takes this whole house deal. So I thought I'd try to document the happenings as we go along and see how the pieces fit together later. Our buyers have officially backed out - we signed their release papers today and they got their earnest money back. We'd only had a contract with them for 3 days. They said that they were unable to obtain a lender for the loan on this house.
We are in love with the home we had hoped to purchase. Since we had Just come to an agreement in price over the phone before our buyers backed out, we decided to ask the owner to consider a contingency contract. A contingency poses no risk to us but it makes his home less likely to be viewed by others. And his home is gorgeous and priced VERY well, in fact he had just lowered his price $5000 last Friday. We were shocked that he agreed to a contingency!! We've learned of a loss that he's suffered and our hearts are so tender toward his situation. In fact, on the way to work yesterday, I was in tears praying for him and this process. I pray that he will experience peace and that we can somehow be a blessing to him in the sale of his house. I believe that God is working in his heart and ours. Our realtor mentioned that he "likes" us, even though he's never met us. That through the way that we negotiated without being pushy and the few details that he knows about our family, he would like to see us in his home. I really think that in the same way that God is causing a tenderness in me for this man, God is causing a tenderness for us in him. It's neat to sense some sort of connection with a person we've never met. I don't know how this will turn out, maybe we'll never own his home, maybe this period of time is just God's way of bringing our family to pray for this man, maybe it's just a period of increasing our faith and contentment with what ever circumstances we face. But I'm grateful for every bit of it.
Now if we can just find another buyer for our house, we'll be moving in the direction that I hope for!! :)